Opinion

Don’t go in for SEX if he won’t marry you

Most ladies in the world go into a relationship without having a thought about the consequences which may occur all because, I love you as took the tongue and lip of both sex. There is nobody to be blamed, both sex enjoys the sex pleasure aside the relationship matters. Well, it is happening and evolving around today in different countries whereby Daddy baby beats up and rape their lady and sees them as their “BABY MAMA” slang commonly used among Nigerians.

However, the lady’s whose identity is unknown narrated how she got herself into the scenario of being beaten up and raped by her daddy baby.  I will go straight to the point. I think the evil of making a wrong decision has finally caught up with me. I met this guy in 2016 and we started dating before you know it I’m pregnant. All efforts to get him to meet my parents and formalize the union proved abortive and I ended up having the baby out of wedlock. Having a baby out of wedlock happens almost every where in the world today.

However, my relationship with my baby daddy continued as he was the one that paid for the hospital bill, naming ceremony and gives me stipends, monthly for our upkeep. I told him recently that if he won’t marry me, I’m no longer interested in being in the relationship with me – and that was the beginning of my travails.

He would come over to my small one room apartment, demand for s*x and if I don’t oblige him, he would beat me up mercilessly and r*pe me till I’m sore, in front of our son.

This has gone on for several weeks now and I don’t know who to talk to or where to go, as my family abandoned me after I became pregnant without being married.

My advice to ladies is to avoid going into a relationship whereby your husband/boyfriend/finance would be demanding for sex when you are not legally marriage with him. The essence of a relationship is to be married happily and not to have a child at the wrong time. Before going into a relationship, we all know that Marriage is the union between two or more people that creates a family tie and carries legal and/or social rights and responsibilities

If you think you have any opinion about how help her get out of this mess, kindly make use of the comment box. Let’s help her!

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