Pastor accuses wife of sleeping with two leaders in his church

One pastor Joshua Ibeneme, appeared before  an Igando Customary Court in Lagos appealing that the court end his 21-year marriage to his wife, Uzoamaka, who he alleged that she had been having sex with two leaders in his church.

According to him,  “My wife had sexual affair with two of my church members — a deacon and a bishop. Both were boasting, telling my other members that they slept with my wife because she enticed them.” “Whenever I returned from a trip, my last child always told me that men came to pick and drop my wife. Even God told me to divorce her or else she will destroy my ministry,” he claimed.

The petitioner filed against his wife claimed that she denied him sex for five years.

“My wife starved me of sex for over five years. Whenever I wanted to sleep with her, she would give one excuse or another. In fact, she moved out of my room to a separate room.”

“But she gives it to my church members freely,” the pastor accused.

The pastor, 53, said that his wife was always mocking and embarrassing him in public, telling people about his sexual performance. He said that Uzoamaka always accused him of having affairs with any female church member who came to the house for counselling.

“She accused them of dating me and also went to their houses to fight them. Her behavior and attitude have chased members away from my church,” he said. The pastor also said that Uzoamaka his wife also instigated their children against him, they did not respect him and they refused to run errands for him except when their mother permitted them to do so. He pleaded with the court to end what he described as “the loveless union,” claiming he was no longer in love with his wife.

However, the respondent, Uzoamaka, denied having sex with their church members but accused her husband of infidelity. “It is women that cause our frequent fighting; they are the problem in our home and my husband’s lust for them is very high.”

“I never slept with the two men who claimed that they slept with me; they just wanted to tarnish my image.”

“My husband is dating the wife of the deacon,” she said.

According to the mother of three, she  said that she starved her husband of sex because she hated sex, adding that she married him because she wanted children. According to the 45-year-old teacher, she said that her husband became sexually inactive five years ago.

“He calls me derogatory names in public such as ‘prostitute.’ I did not instigate the children against him,’’ she explained. She pleaded with the court not to grant her husband’s wish to dissolve the marriage, claiming she was still in love with him. Meanwhile the court president, Mr. Akin Akinniyi, urged the couple to maintain peace and adjourned the case to May 10 for judgment.

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